Children come to you for support, not realizing that it is your criminal negligence in education is the cause of their tears, losses and disappointments. In the third stage of becoming a slaver you realize that the children are grown, and it is time to them as it is accepted in modern society begin to ensure your old age.
(firmenpresse) - The title of my next article at first glance looks illogical and unbelievable. But it is only at first sight...
I confess that I never looked at the problems of education of children at an angle. And I would never have written this story, if not the story of one woman who was the occasion for the whole study. Dozens of hours of analysis of incidents, statistics and work with independent experts in law, psychology, family life, conflict resolution and judicial practice, led to a disappointing conclusion. I understand that the title is shocking and cause resentment, but agree that more resentment is the condition in which today is the vast majority of modern families - the lies, betrayals, disappointments and endless doubt the most loved ones. This article focuses on how it happened, and why the majority of children, regardless of age doomed to a dangerous fight for the freedom of their own parents and the right choices in life.
During the preparation of the next series of new psychological reality I had a meeting in a cozy office at Holborn street. Opposite me was the 40-year-old Mrs. N. Her real name is not irrelevant. Mrs. N. storyteller works, but on the day the story she told me was biographical. To be honest, it was more like a confession. Part of this story was published in the eve of «The guardian»:
When N. was a teenager, her mother was incredibly domineering woman. She did not allow her daughter to communicate with friends and strongly restricted in its choice of friends. Naturally daughter wanted freedom, wanted to communicate with their peers, so ran away from home and join the teenage gang. She was trying to break free from the shackles of the parent. It was a frank teenage rebellion, but the mother did not want to put up with it. She constantly suspected of cheating daughter every day and searched her room. The atmosphere in the family became more and more tense - as a result of the conflict between mother and daughter also affected the relationship between the parents. At some point, Mrs. N. father left the family. His mother, not long thinking, accused in the destruction of the daughter of the family. Since then, many years have passed. Mrs. N. has his own family, but she was never able to find a common language with his mother. Over the past 25 years, the mother of his daughter continues to blame all their failures and the destruction of the family.
A key episode of the interview consisted of a single sentence: Mrs. N. described his youthful conflicts with her mother as a war for freedom - a war between slave and slave traders.
These words shocked me. Again, I had never looked at the problems of parents and children in the format of relations, "the slave and the slaver." But how many of Mrs. N. around? What horrors, insults and scandals with parents tried in vain to drown you in your memory? How many people have been unable to free themselves from the shackles of the parent? After meeting with Mrs. N. prospects and relevance of the next series of the reality became apparent. I decided to conduct an independent investigation.
What is slavery? The Geneva "Slavery Convention" in 1962 describes slavery as "the status or condition of a person over whom any or all of the powers attaching to the right of ownership are exercised." Sound familiar, dear parents?
According to international law a slave is commonly understood "the purpose of exploitation transportation, transfer, harboring or receipt of persons by means of threat or use of force or other forms of coercion, abduction, fraud, deception, abuse of power or of a position of vulnerability or of the giving of payments or benefits".
As I said, the research work was raised a number of experts, among which the most useful and productive meeting unspoken appeared with several human rights activists, judges and lawyers. In addition to analyzing the set of use cases have been identified underway criminal plan "classic" slavers:
1. Mastering by man;
2. Transportation and / or isolation;
3. The sale and / or lease human
4. Operation.
Notice in the example of Mrs. N. mother tried to isolate her daughter in every way possible - limited in the choice of friends and acquaintances, searches the room and much more. Many of these mothers? Millions! But then the question arises: at what point parents take possession of their children? Everything is very simple. It occurs at the moment of birth. But where does this strange desire to isolate and / or supervise their children? "It is an effective and safe solution!" - Say in unison parents. But this is absurd. For some, the solution is safe? What are you afraid of? Are you afraid that your child will make something stupid? Why do you think that he should commit an immoral act? Maybe because of the stupidity he learned from you, or you just copied? Then everything falls into place: it is for you personally would be very unsafe if the people around know that you represent, and what stupidity are making behind closed doors. In this case, of course, you have to control every step of their child. So gradually you pass infancy slave. At the same time you are making every effort to promptly turn their children into loonies, parasites and psychopaths. How do you do it? His limitations control and isolation of the world you are reducing the size of the baby until you are able to control. For children there are a lot of interpretation blocks that have nothing to do with reality. As a result, at the age of 18-20 years, they find themselves face to face with the world, which they actually do not know anything. The consequences of this situation for the child are predictable - a lot of defeats, disappointments, and the complete absence psihotravm outlook in life.
What happens next? Children come to you for support, not realizing that it is your criminal negligence in education is the cause of their tears, losses and disappointments. In the third stage of becoming a slaver you realize that the children are grown, and it is time to them as it is accepted in modern society begin to ensure your old age.
We proceed to the third and fourth stages - for sale or lease for the purpose of exploitation. You are so sophisticated to implement the third and fourth stage that even an untrained person can not believe in the purity of your intentions. But millions of examples prove the opposite. How many families you destroyed their children only because of the potential candidacy in-law seemed inappropriate to you. And what really lies behind this noble phrase "suitable candidates", "he / she is no match for you", "still early enough you know each other" and so on? Again, everything is very simple. You either profitable or that nominee or not profitable. Only a few are able to go against the will of their parents. All others sell themselves or lease only with "blessing" of their parents.
As you can see, education for all can quietly turn into enslavement. Unfortunately, the majority of parents are professional slavers. There may be a logical question - why for most of you are still not excited criminal case under article "Trafficking in human beings"? The answer is in the question. You most. So you are very disadvantageous to change anything, and the more you fight the slave trade is not profitable, because in that case you have to fight with yourself.
And besides that, you really scared. No, you are not afraid of the slave trade! Are you afraid that there will be someone who will be able to repeat the same cycle of action with your child, and you are thus left with nothing. And that's the secret! The arrest, detention and conviction - something small, what should happen with the majority of today's parents. In reality, you are that there is nothing to worry about. You, as always, will continue to destroy their children before the eyes of world public opinion.
Ann Richter
journalist, a psychologist,
I am preparing a new English reality
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